Rock Wilk’s play coming to Trenton
By JOAN GALLER
jgaller@trentonian.com Posted: 03/16/12 12:01 am
Updated: 03/16/12 12:55 am
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Rock Wilk performs his one-may musical play “Broke Wide Open.” He’ll perform the show Sunday at 3 p.m. at the Mill Hill Playhouse on Front and Montgomery streets.
TRENTON — For every kid who’s been abandoned, dumped into foster care or given up for adoption — and sentenced to a lifetime of wondering why — this story is yours.
Actor-singer-playwright Rock Wilk has lived just such a life and examines all those life-changing decisions that impacted his life in his one-man musical play “Broke Wide Open,” which he will perform this Sunday at 3 p.m. at the Mill Hill Playhouse in Trenton. This marks the second time Wilk is performing “Broke Wide Open” as part of Passage Theatre’s 11th annual Solo Flights Festival in New Jersey’s capital. He opened the festival on March 2 and received a standing ovation on the final leg of his six-year artistic journey that will culminate Oct. 5 with his play’s debut on Broadway.
Wilk — who was born in New York City’s Mount Sinai Hospital and spent 10 weeks in three foster care homes before he was adopted and renamed Alan Wilk — has been writing, revising and performing his play since 2006. He set out on his birthright quest in 2003, searching for his birth mother, and later started writing his autobiographical music after his parents and grandmother died and his marriage broke up, leaving him feeling utterly alone and searching for answers. “I wasn’t sure I wanted to meet my birth mother. I just became curious when my family started to die and I started to think about my medical history,” Wilk began. New York State’s adoption records are sealed by law, so it took him a year to track down his original birth certificate with his original name and where he was born. What little he discovered in the records and at the now-defunct adoption agency brought him no comfort. His birth mother had a two-year affair with her boss — his father, who was married with three children. When she found out she was pregnant, she left and never told him about his baby. She was 27 when Wilk was born. “They wouldn’t give me her name, it’s illegal, but I presume (based on her name that) she was Jewish,” Wilk says. Wilk has managed to learn that his birth mother was orphaned at age 3 when both her parents died. “Now I believe she was completely confused, felt that she could never be a mother, and I’ve come to understand her pain,” he said. As for his father, Wilk says “I don’t understand how he could not know there’s part of himself running around out there.” Wilk was adopted by a loving Jewish couple Phyllis and Leon Wilk, who also adopted two other children, a boy and girl. “We weren’t religious, just observed just Yom Kippur and Passover, and I made my bar mitzvah by faking the Hebrew.” In his search, Wilk found three women with his original last name who might be his mother, and he called the only one with a listed phone number. “She was not the right one.” Today, in “Broke Wide Open,” Wilk recounts and relives all those decisions by others and their impact on his life. The play’s blunt title is taken from a term that means “being revealing, raw, naked as possible,” says Wilk. It came from his initial work, an independently produced album of songs that he wrote over two months in 2006 while riding New York’s subways. Wilk sings on this album and calls it “a popular R&B sound. My voice has been compared to Justin Timberlake. I play guitar, piano and drums, this album’s all me.” It was produced with help from Jack Rollins, now 96, a longtime personal friend who was a film producer and manager for Woody Allen, Billy Crystal, David Letterman and Robert Klein,” says Wlik. “Jack’s daughter was one of my early girlfriends, she’s still one of my best friends.” As Wilk tells his story, Rollins “heard some of my work and thought I should do an album, said I had a lot to say and needed to get this out of me, but he advised me to be completely revealing -- open, raw, naked as possible that’s where the art lies. “He inspired me to do that at a difficult time in my life when my mom had just died and my marriage crumbled,” Wilk said. Others felt the album was a performance play, but there were so many themes. Wilk was urged to choose just one story line. “I chose the adoption theme.” Every day for nearly six years, Wilk has worked on his play. “I’ve traveled the world after developing it in the streets, performing in the parks.” And he has used the audience’s feedback in the play’s “ongoing development.” His search for identity and answers last year took him all over the U.S. and on to London, where he performed “during the riots” in the Camden Fringe Festival. Other adoptees relate to adoption’s impact on Wilk’s life: his ambivalent search for his mother, his sense of loss following the deaths of his parents and grandmother and lost friendships. “Everything fueled my search for personal identity because I have no idea about my real identity,” he notes. Wilk’s play chronicles his non-stop search for “home” because he always felt out of place, even as a young and sometimes “difficult” child, whose his family and friends started calling him “Rock” and by 13 “Alan was gone.” From audience feedback, Wilk has learned “my issues are the same as anyone else’s, not knowing who I was or having anyone looking like me always had me confused.” “My play is about all the complexities of not knowing where you come from,” Wilk sums up. “After two hours of watching me perform with all this frantic energy, the audience and I find out who I am — I am just like anyone else, an accumulation of all these people in my past, of all my experiences and all the choices I have made.” Today, says Wilk, “I know who I am, I am my mother and father and grandmother, my relationships, travels, challenges, that’s who I am. It’s a constant search for all of us to know who we are.” Wilk takes heart from the message in “The Wizard of Oz.” “I always think of Dorothy, She’s always been ‘home,’ it’s inside you.” Wilk, who lives in Washington Heights, is looking forward to performing his one-man play at the 45th Street Theatre in New York. Using his brokewideopen.com website, Wilk has raised $11,300 to date to mount the production. He’s hoping to reach the $30,000 mark with his “500 Names” campaign, supporters who are helping him mount the production, pay his collaborators and hire a publicist. Contributions have ranged from $5 to $500. “I wept the day I delivered a $10,000 check to rent the theater for one month,” Wilk said. “It had 300 signatures on it. This has always been a community-based project, performing in the streets and parks,” Wilk added. “I’m so grateful for this (500 Names) list.” Wilk says the “adoption community has found me and comes to all my shows but is not supporting” his fundraising efforts. Donors are mostly people who relate to the story because everyone has dealt with love, loss, relationships and family issues, says Wilk. Feedback, good and not so good, comes from all quarters after performances and via email. “Some people call adoption ‘child trafficking,’ that they ‘took me’ from my mother, and one adoption advocate actually told me the most significant fact in my life is that I was given away,” Wilk said. “I had a woman send me a negative e-mail that I promote child trafficking, but I have a lot of friends who grew up in group homes without anything. I feel very healthy today, I am willing to deal with everything about me. I’ve experienced very difficult, painful things in the past six years. I have completely reinvented my life while working on this play.” The New York show will use animation, video, a magnificent two-story mural. “I want them to see what I see ... which captures the diverse people I’ve encountered all over the world as I’ve performed ‘Broke Wide Open’,” WIlk explained. Wilk is planning a gala New York opening night with a celebratory dinner after the show. Twenty percent of proceeds, at $125 per ticket, will be donated to the Children’s Aid Society adoption and foster care program. General admission will be $35 for the rest of the run, which he hopes to extend beyond one month. Tickets are $20 for the Sunday performance at 3 o’clock at the Mill Hill Playhouse, Front and Montgomery streets. Passage Theatre is Trenton’s only independent resident theater company dedicated to presenting new talent and one-person shows.
Joan Galler - The Trentonian
(Mar 16, 2012)